Thursday 23 June 2011

Platonic relationships...

There is a term called as platonic relationship,  it is  a relationship between two persons of the opposite gender and the most important insignia of this relationship is the absence of  any expectations of any physical favour.
          In olden days  (or even today in some places) what girls used to do to avoid any threat of eve teasing from a guy is they tie a thread known as Rakhi around the wrist of that guy. And assure an emotional sheild is being installed between her and the guy.
          Also this relationship exist  without all this exercise, many groups in the organisations like colleges, schools, workplace, etc.... consisting of guys 'n' gals can be seen and most often these people don't expect physical favour from the group mates of opposite gender , although they hang out together, booze, party, go for an outing ,etc.....
           All iz well till all are just interested in spending the quality moments together .But, the moment a guy or a girl fell prey to the peculiar hormonal imbalances  occuring  in the mind,  popularly known as infatuation and speak out his heart , the relationship among the two is under the threat now the ball is in the court of the proposee, he/she is to decide the fate of the relationship, whether just by giving a decent reply like didn't thought about you  that way , OR we are just friend OR you are just like a cousin to me, etc..................
OR to dismantle  all the connections
     Bottom line is:  these relationship are very special one but need to be handled very carefully, coz, if they break , it pains a lot. And if nurtured properly receives the heavenly blessings .

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