Platonic relationships...

There is a term called as platonic relationship,  it is  a relationship between two persons of the opposite gender and the most important insignia of this relationship is the absence of  any expectations of any physical favour.
          In olden days  (or even today in some places) what girls used to do to avoid any threat of eve teasing from a guy is they tie a thread known as Rakhi around the wrist of that guy. And assure an emotional sheild is being installed between her and the guy.
          Also this relationship exist  without all this exercise, many groups in the organisations like colleges, schools, workplace, etc.... consisting of guys 'n' gals can be seen and most often these people don't expect physical favour from the group mates of opposite gender , although they hang out together, booze, party, go for an outing ,etc.....
           All iz well till all are just interested in spending the quality moments together .But, the moment a guy or a girl fell prey to the peculiar hormonal imbalances  occuring  in the mind,  popularly known as infatuation and speak out his heart , the relationship among the two is under the threat now the ball is in the court of the proposee, he/she is to decide the fate of the relationship, whether just by giving a decent reply like didn't thought about you  that way , OR we are just friend OR you are just like a cousin to me, etc..................
OR to dismantle  all the connections
     Bottom line is:  these relationship are very special one but need to be handled very carefully, coz, if they break , it pains a lot. And if nurtured properly receives the heavenly blessings .

searching words.........

I dont know why I am feeling like being Shaayar, there is a plethora of thoughts coming into my mind.
I, finally decided to pen'em down & below is, what I ended up composing.........


                     agar khanzaron se haaathon ki lakeeren banti
                     to kasam se teri tasweer is haath par bana dete....


                     tu kisi aur ke khayalon me bhi gawara nahi mujhe
                     kisi aur ki bahon me dekhenge to quayamat hogi

                    jo teri aankhon me doob kar ,
                    tere deedar me tamam ho jaye
                    to is zindagi ko mukammal janenge

..........there is no protagonist of these lines. these are mere reflection of  whatever  came across my mind.....

Dil V/s Dimag

woh bhi yahin the, hum bhi yahin the....
par hum  unhe rukhsat kar n sake,
takallufi ki to baat n thi,
zaroori to nahi , haath milaye hi jaayen.............
                    Yesterday, i had a leason and at the end of it I found myself pondering over the fact that why has god placed the brain over 'n' above the heart . I was following my mind over an issue for my entire life till yesterday, but finally i fell prey to my heart. And all the philosophies and chemical imbalances occuring in my psychology, overruled my mind and I got carried away.
                                           With due respect to all the philosophers who give utmost importance to the heart, saying ..........dil to pagal hai........dil hai ki manta nahi.....dil-e-nadan........bla bla bla..........
one should always act in sync with general wisdom and rationality.
          The above lines are my visualisation of the situation I experienced yesterday and which made me write this post . Also, I would like to suggest the readers (if any) that, let the heart do nothing but pump blood to keep you alive & let the thinking & deciding part be assigned to the brain only. life'll be better